Armwood OL Commits Suicide

[USFMikeB]

You gotta feel for this kid's family, he had so much to live for.

http://www.sptimes.com/2006/01/22/Tampabay/With_future_ahead_of_.shtml

With future ahead of him, Armwood star ends his life

Josh Uhlarik, 16, was a fun-loving, standout offensive lineman on the Armwood team that played this past season for the state championship. He died Saturday of a self-inflicted gunshot wound to the head to the shock of family and friends.

By KEVIN GRAHAM and SHERRI DAY

Published January 22, 2006

BRANDON - Letters from the nation's top college football programs had already started coming in 16-year-old Josh Uhlarik's mailbox.

Duke. Indiana. Michigan. Louisiana State.

They all wanted a shot at recruiting the Armwood High junior, an offensive lineman on the school's football team.

"Every day, he would talk about how much he was looking forward to going to college," said David Uhlarik, Josh's father.

But Uhlarik won't see his son sign his first deal.

Josh died Saturday by what his family has said was suicide. The Hillsborough County Medical Examiner's office said he died from a gunshot wound to the head.

The teenager's death comes less than a month after James Dungy, the 18-year-old son of former Tampa Bay Buccaneers coach Tony Dungy. James Dungy hanged himself Dec. 22 in his Lutz apartment.

"Anybody that knew (Josh) would be absolutely shocked by this," David Uhlarik said Sunday.

His eyes swollen and red, Uhlarik sat with a football game playing on the television in the background. A photograph of Josh in his Armwood football uniform lay on the coffee table, within arms' reach.

"We were not only father and son, but also very good friends," said Uhlarik, a sergeant with the Hillsborough County Sheriff's Office. "I'm going to miss talking to him."

Josh spent the weekend at his mother's home, Uhlarik said. His parents were divorced and with his dad's hectic work schedule, Josh split his time staying with both of them.

His mother could not be reached Sunday for comment.

Uhlarik declined to discuss details of how his son ended his life. Sheriff's spokeswoman Detective Lisa Haber would not confirm any details about the suicide.

However, deputies did respond just after 4 p.m. Saturday to investigate the death of a 16-year-old white male in the Seffner area.

Those who knew Josh well describe him as a normal teen who enjoyed playing video games, particularly the popular football game Madden NFL. A left tackle on Armwood's varsity football team, Josh was also a standout football player, his teammates and coaches said.

"Nobody saw it coming," said Sean Callahan, head football coach at Armwood High. "We saw a happy kid, right up to the day of it."

Team captain Bert McBride said word of Josh's death spread quickly Saturday among Armwood students and football players.

"It came as a shock to absolutely everyone because when you think about him, he was just not that kind of guy," said McBride, 18. "He was really light-hearted."

McBride remembered Josh as a fun-loving teammate who enjoyed hanging around with football players during the season. During games, Josh often told jokes on the sidelines. Once, he took part in a mud-slinging fight with the other players.

Uhlarik laughed when he thought about some of the pranks his son would pull on his teammates and even the coaches.

"He had a good sense of humor," Uhlarik said.

All Josh thought about, his teammates said, was football. He had dreams of playing at a Division I college. At nearly 6 feet 7, Josh caught the eye of several college recruiters.

Josh's teammates found his death particularly shocking given his prospects for a stellar college career.

Kyle Paulhus, a senior who played on Armwood's offensive line with Josh, said no one could imagine Josh taking his life.

"He's got his whole career ahead of him, his whole life," Paulhus said in disbelief. "Any college would like to have him. Next year, he would have been one of the best players in Hillsborough County, I believe. He liked football a lot. He was always ready to get in there and play."

Callahan said Josh had come a long way since he joined Armood's football team as a freshman. He'd seen Josh grow a lot, literally. He'd gained more than a foot since the two met.

"We talked about everything," Callahan said. "From football to girlfriends, to any type of problem he was having in school or on the team. He was really shaping up into a fine young man."

Josh was the only returning offensive lineman for the Armwood Hawks, which took Class 4A championships in 2003 and '04 and had a runner-up finish last month.

"He was going to be the glue in that offensive line," Callahan said.

The coach said he plans to meet with the Armwood team as a whole today to talk about Josh's death and suicide.

Schools spokesman Steve Hegarty said counselors will also be at Armwood today for students who want to talk.

"He was fairly well known at school and popular," Hegarty said. "We're expecting that they'll have a busy day."

Statistics show that suicide is the third leading cause of death for people between 15 and 24 in Florida. It's the second leading cause of death among those between ages 25 and 34 in this state.

Next week, the Crisis Center of Tampa Bay will hold a free, suicide prevention workshop. The two-hour session, on Jan. 31, will train participants how to look for the warning signs of suicide.

Still, Callahan said it will be hard to ever make sense about what happened with Josh.

"We're just going to have to live with the fact that we have a lot of questions, and we're not going to get the answers," Callahan said. "We're just going to have to learn to deal with it."

[katieusf]

stories like this hit entirely too close to home and completely break my heart. all i can say is my heart goes out to his friends and family.

[Guest USFSam]

terrible news...thoughts and prayers to his family

[Rabbi Bull]

you just hate to see a kid do that, thats the worst possible thing to do, my prayers will be with his friends and family on friday

[Matt]

i hate to hear about things like this.  football player or not.  you just feel bad for the kids family.  I don't mean to disrespect his family at all and i do not know anything firsthand about the Armwood program but if have heard alligations a couple different places about possible steriod use there and everyone knows the terrible side effects from steriod use.  once again, let me state that i do not know if this young man used steriods and i dont want to disrepect his family that way but i think its something that needs to be looked at and make sure it didn't play a role in this terrible event.

[E.T.]

Sad indeed to lose such a young life.

GOD Bless

[beastiebull]

Growing one foot taller in a year is a huge growth spurt.  The kid must have had all kind of hormones running amuck in his body.  It could have affected his mentl well-being.  Sad sad story that is becoming all too prevelant in today's world.