Answer from the Bulls Club: All of the above.
Answer from some of the disillusioned: None of the above.
Answer, as in life in general: Only you can decide what is best for you under your circumstances.
I am a donor and have been for about a quarter of a century having lived in and outside the Tampa Bay area during that time. I was a football season ticket holder from the very beginning and until I moved to NC a little over a year ago. Was also and men's basketball and baseball season ticket holder. I was and Iron Bull, served for years on the Bulls Club Board of Directors, volunteered, worked hard and traveled far and wide to encourage support and even sponsored events to attract new fans and donors. Went to soooo many games both home and on the road. Through it all, sometimes we had success on the field of play and in garnering support but mostly it was a struggle. Always, though, it was worth it. I felt good supporting my University and being a part of something to which I was so organically connected. Athletics got me connected to and supporting other USF programs, particularly the Office of Veteran Success. I shared may great moments inside and outside the lines with family and longtime friends. I met and supported some great kids in their athletic and academic pursuits. I developed lifelong friendships with a great group of Bulls fans and alumni. I had some awesome road trips and experiences. I even met the love of my life at a USF basketball game. Now I live a long way from campus and Raymond James. I no longer have season tickets but will go to several games this year and am still a donor, though at a reduced level. I have now put some of my financial resources and support behind a local small college and high school. And I feel fine about that as well. We all can enjoy the connection, the exhilaration and even the heartbreak (oh, so much heartbreak) that USF athletics can bring and be at peace with however our life allows. I say, just give it a chance and be open minded as to the meaning of success and what kinds of rewards you may reap.
And Go Bulls!