My God people stop reading all this BS about Gruden. He is a good person, just listen to his ex players they defend him as a great human being. So what if he said stuff in an email, people say stuff ,it's how you actually treat others and knowbody has said he treated them bad. This society of beleiving everything in text is getting to be so shameful. Look at peoples actions not what they say. I have said so many things to freinds over my 55 years on this earth that people would say I'm racist or a homophobe or misogynistic and I am not, I follow my christian beliefs of loving everyone (but my ex wife) and doing my best to help as well as believing everyone can succeed in life if they work hard, it doesn't matter the color of your skin or sexuality. Just be a good person and I have nothing but love for you