Just saw this story in online version of St. Pete Times. Wishing the best for him & his family. ------------------------------------------- Lakewood coach learned early to rely on football Dixon shares his father's death with his players, helping him heal. By JOE SMITH Published November 6, 2006 ST. PETERSBURG - Otis Dixon had an eerie feeling as his phone rang before dawn one Saturday morning. The second-year Lakewood High football coach, still giddy over a season-opening 35-0 win over Gibbs the night before - "the most important" of his career - felt his heart drop into his stomach. "You just don't get good calls at 5 a.m.," he said. "I thought it was either my sister in Iraq, or my daddy was dead." The call came from a nearby nursing home. Charles Dixon Sr. had died in his sleep, having never seen his son coach. Friday nights during Otis Dixon's high school days were the few occasions the former Clearwater High and USF star could count on his father being around. Charles - and his many faults - shaped the 28-year-old. "I love my dad," Dixon said. "But I want to be a better man, better husband, better father, than he was." He is, those close to Dixon say. At the same time, the fun-loving father of two has completely changed the culture of Lakewood's program with his tough-love approach. "Tough" holds new meaning for Dixon, whose father and uncle died during a three-week span this season. Two of his players also mourned the loss of family members. One simmering August afternoon, Dixon shared his story with his team; how football has always been his family, his greatest teacher. He urged his players to grow close in tough times, which will pass, and move on to the next challenge. His embattled Spartans (3-7) might be out of the playoffs, but they realize the tradeoff. "We're ready for life," senior linebacker Kevin Hartzog said. "We're ready to be young men." Story link: http://www.sptimes.com/2006/11/06/Sports/Lakewood_coach_learne.shtml